Firstly, one must be good at listening. When she speaks, stop doing other things and focus on looking into her eyes. Use short responses such as “um” and “then” to indicate that you are listening attentively, which will make her feel respected. For example, when she shares her troubles at work, you can listen carefully and say, “It sounds like you’ve had a tough time lately, but I believe you have the ability to solve it Secondly, learn to ask questions. Avoid asking simple “yes” or “no” questions, and instead ask open-ended questions to give her more opportunities to express herself. Do you have any new or interesting things in your life recently? This can help you gain a deeper understanding of her interests, hobbies, and life status, and also keep the topic going. Furthermore, cleverly utilizing humor. Tell a light hearted joke or share a humorous anecdote at the appropriate time, but avoid excessive self deprecation or making offensive jokes. For example, when you see an interesting scene on the street, you can say, “Look at that dog’s walking posture, it looks like it’s dancing a funny dance. It feels like it’s going to participate in a dog comedy competition You also need to know how to praise. Praise should be specific and sincere, not vague. If she changes her hairstyle, you can say, “This hairstyle suits your temperament very well, making you more lively and energetic. Is it just a surprise for me
